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Why are you standing next to Rathore?
Sach Kanwal Singh 

Since we all agree that we have all become apathetic and immune to some of the biggest problems that our society is facing, how do you want us to start a story about your collective anger and rage that you felt/displayed/vented at disgraced Indian police officer SPS Rathore who was accused of trying to molest a 14-year-old tennis playing school student Ruchika Girhotra and then drove her to suicide?

Well, here is the generic, simple truth, if you don't mind.

You are quite a sham. So are we. So is the world around you and us.

Want the truth is a little bit harsher, no frills form? SPS Rathore's crime was so very ordinary, so very common, so terribly pedestrian, that perhaps he was only a victim of his position, his case being a Chandigarh case, and the media stretching that smirk into an 8-column national outrage photo exhibition spanning a month or so.

Hold on, please. Just don't rush to label us devil's advocates. We know a devil when we see one, and we see one in Rathore. If we see one in yourself and ourselves, it is because we still use mirrors. Come have a look.

Take three portions of Deprivation, two good portions of oppression, a healthy dose of terror, and wrap it in chronic apathy of the state and society: you have a concoction called dystopia in which millions of our children inhabit. We somehow manage to sideline this whole jungle of dystopia, clear our conscience and see Rathore as the devil incarnate, which, of course he is. But in so doing, we all collectively cleansed our soul in the sure knowlegde that we are not Rathore, that none of our uncles is, that none of our children will ever grow up to be a Rathore.

But shouldn't we have a look at what we are?

Life for children in India is one long nightmare. The Government of India tells us that more than two-thirds of children experience beatings in their homes, schools, workplace and government institutions. Just imagine what would we have called these beatings if only these had happened to children in prison cells? The only word is torture. The Government of the same India that is growing at a robust economic rate, tells us that every second child faces one or more forms of sexual abuse.

In a country with a massive, massive problem of child labour, it is touching to note such concern about one case of attempted molestation. That is because we see these two as separate things: child labour and molestation. We forget that the moment a society learns to live with child labour, it learns to live with child molestation too. The children working as bonded labourers are very, very vulnerable to molestation, rape, sodomy and every type of crime. When these kids are caught, irrespective of the fact that the Convention on the Rights of the Child is the most ratified human rights treaty in human history, these kids are exposed to even higher forms of crime. Every single state government in India, and Punjab is no exception, has failed to provide separate homes for different age groups of children, preferably between 7-11 years, 12-16 years and 16-18 years, giving due consideration to physical and mental nature of the offence committed. In town after town, city after city, juvenile justice boards are an unheard of idea.

Every time we delay a government program, everytime the government falls back on some commitment, we open more children to poverty, hunger, deprivation, sexual abuse. Just take the case of National Rural Health Mission. Now, what has it got to do with Ruchika's suicide?

We can chose not to connect the Ruchika case to the treatment meted out to young girls, middle aged women and elderly, matronly ladies in Delhi in the winter of 1984, and every single day since then. The modesty of each of these women was as invaluable, sacro-sanct as that of Ruchika. As Trilokpuri, Sultanpuri and myriad other colonies watch their children slip into the menace of drugs, joblessness and utter apathy of the state, how far are crimes against women, sexual abuse of girls and exploitation by vested interests? Isn’t every Ruchika important? Do we want justice for one Ruchika or for every single child?

 

A lot. A whole lot of our young Ruchikas are becoming vulnerable every single day because annual action plans are prepared based on annual household survey conducted at sub-center level, without conducting facility survey, the health district plans are not prepared by consolidating block level action, plans are often delayed, crores are often unutilised or go as bribes. Such aberrations in administration leave hundreds of thousands of slums, hutments, tin shacks, footpath children uncovered, unprovided for, uncared for. Every single such delay, such aberration leaves many Ruchikas are the mercy of men far less powerful that Rathore.

But we pay attention only when we see a Rathore. No, not when we see a Rathore, but when he smirks at us. No, not when he smirks at us, but when we catch that smirk on the camera. No, not when we catch that smirk on the camera, but when the regular 10 o'clock news bulletin does not have some more smashing, sensational item. Just think what would have happened if the court decision had come sometime in the last week of November 2008, or the first week of December 2008 when all our news TV cameras were stationed either at the Taj/Oberoi in Mumbai, or at anyone who was ready to abuse Pakistan from Bhiwandi to Bathinda.

If you have a doubt about how your attention remains divided unless a devil smirks on an otherwise news-free day, sample this: A panchayat in Rohtak recently decided that the only punishment to the rapist of a seven-year-old girl was that his hair be shaved off. But even in this there was a rider: the girl's family was not supposed to inform the police as a quid pro quo for such 'dire' punishment. On how many channels were you able to watch the story? In how many newspapers did it make headlines? Not that the reporters did not get to know about it. Most likely, your newspaper published it, tucked deep inside where you hardly have time to reach when you are rushing to pack kids' school tiffins, calling up office to say you will be getting late and doing your social duty watching the media lambasting Rathore.

In Bangalore, when Rathore was hogging shelf space on TV and in newspapers, a two-year-old was raped by a construction contractor. Around the same time, a 10-year-old girl from Valsad raped by her uncle, a Latur teenager was raped by three young men in her village and hanged from a jamun tree. If you sent in as many camera teams and the ubiquitous OB vans of news TV studios to every such place, then there will be little space left to talk about eight per cent growth rates and the success of Chidamabaram's Operation Green Hunt.

So, it is much better to satiate our conscience by talking about Ruchika. If you feel your angst levels are not satiated by news tv, please join the candle vigil. There is always a spare news tv camera for such vigils, and lit candles yield reasonably good photos for page one on city supplements of newspapers.

Meanwhile, we can chose not to connect the treatment meted out to young girls, middle aged women and elderly, matronly ladies in Delhi in the winter of 1984, and every single day since then. As Trilokpuri, Sultanpuri and myriad other colonies watch their children slip into the menace of drugs, joblessness and utter apathy of the state, is it any wonder that the entire campaign against Rathore is played out in the newspapers, on TV screens? When and where did you see a crowd of 1,000 people on the roads, demanding justice for Ruchika, and looking determined to launch a long-drawn out fight for it?

If you want to help, ask questions. Ask why is there a liquor vend around every corner in Punjab? Ask the media why press clubs must have a liquor bar? Question the culture of the rise of the raunchy in our cinema. Ask the editors why after all the hyped up coverage of the Ruchika case, the space devoted to it was still far short of what is claimed by Bollywood starlets. And please do ask yourself, as we ask ourselves: Who had asked us to remain silent for nineteen years? Speak up. Please refuse to be a complicit. None of us is going to look very smart standing next to Rathore in any photograph.

 

No, don't worry if you did not. Indian media's capacity at ignoring crowds of thousands is legendary. Just when India was marking the first anniversary of the Mumbai terror attacks, on November 26, 2009, thousands of agricultural workers, farmers, lawyers, doctors and others, a majority of them women, from all over India, marched to the Parliament Street in New Delhi, demanding that no one should starve to death since there is a right to life enshrined in the Constitution and since they are now sick of the repetetive talk of right to food. They wanted a comprehensive Food Entitlements Act and immediate action in drought-affected areas. They talked of urgency of addressing pervasive hunger and starvation in a year of widespread drought and spiralling food prices. But the media that runs Domino Pizza ads with punch lines like “Hungry Kya?” completely ignored the rally since an issue like food for the hungry carries little political weight.

Among classes that wield power and influence, the encounter with hunger is at best articulated in an ad-linelike Hungry Kya, and it is this class that lights candles for Ruchika and sees a devil in Rathore. If only they light a candle for every Ruchika, and see a devil in every Rathore. But part of the reason why Rathore’s appalling crime drew attention was that it fitted neatly with tropes of villainy familiar from pop-culture: among them, uniformed criminals immune from the law and powerful politicians who guarantee them impunity.

The real picture on the ground is different, and the cities where people protest are not so orderly as Chandigarh. The police reactions are not so measured as in Chandigarh where all media houses run multi-page local supplements and a leakage in a sewerage pipe gets top billing on page one if it is near the house of a VIP.

In 2007, the Union Ministry of Women and Child Development released the thoughtful —and terrifying — Study on Child Abuse in India. More than 12,000 children were polled to arrive at an empirical picture of the scale of beatings and sexual crimes that Indian children endure. Fifty-three per cent of the children said they had encountered “one or more forms of sexual abuse;” 68.99 per cent said they had suffered physical abuse, including beatings. More than a fifth reported severe sexual abuse, including assault, having been compelled to fondle adults’ private parts, exhibit themselves or be photographed nude. Well over half of those reporting severe sexual abuse were boys, the study found.

Popular wisdom holds that sexual abuse takes place when children are in environments outside the supposedly safe confines of their homes and schools. That, the study found, was simply not true. Fifty-three per cent of children not going to school said they had been sexually abused in their family environment. Just under half said they had encountered sexual abuse at their schools. These figures, interestingly, were about the same as children in institutional care who said they had been sexually abused — 47.08 per cent. Most vulnerable were children in workplaces, 61.31 per cent of whom had been sexually abused.

It is estimated that there are up to half-a-million girl children from across the South Asian region working as prostitutes in India. We hope the media will focus on the issue with as many spare reporters, news tv cameras, front page reports, walk the talk shows, chat shows, the Big Fights, Muqabla, or whatever inane name talk TV employs, as it did in case of Ruchika, but only when it decides that there are other criminals than Rathore. 

The broad picture of child abuse in India is heart breaking. Maulana Azad Medical College researcher Deepti Pagare found that over three-fourths of children in Delhi’s Child Observation Home had reported being subjected to physical abuse. Signs of abuse were found on the bodies of about half the children studied by Dr. Pagare. Fathers made up over half the reported perpetrators, and Dr. Pagare found a significant association between physical abuse of children and domestic violence in homes as well as substance abuse. Save the Children and Tulir, in a 2006 study conducted in West Bengal, found that almost three-quarters of child domestic workers had been physically abused. In 41.5 per cent of cases, the perpetrator was a member of the employers’ family.

India’s criminal justice system simply doesn’t have either the legal instruments or police infrastructure to deal with crimes against children. India is yet to pass a specific law on child sexual abuse — a legislative failure that makes prosecution in many situations almost impossible.

In 1974, the National Policy for Children declared children a “supreme national asset.” No country in which two-thirds of children report beatings, and half experience sexual abuse, can make that claim with honesty.

A whole lot of noise over Rathore, a whole lot of self-styled fighters for justice are also in some peculiar way helping to keep in place the shroud of silence that conceals the sheer pervasiveness of child abuse.

If you really were so enraged at what happened to Ruchika, and what happened to her family, if you really want to follow in the steps of Ruchika’s friend Aradhna or her parents Anand and Madhu Prakash, come and join the fight. Join the fight against India’s Armed Forces Special Powers Act because of which Indian armed personnel are carrying out serial rapes of young women in Manipur and elsewhere. Stand up against Operation Green Hunt of Chidambaram who wants to use your army and your tax money to kill the leaders of the poorest of the poor by branding them Maoists and Naxalites but does not want to use that money to lay roads, provide jobs, ensure drinking water and bring governance to huge swathes that are awash in rank poverty. Take a stand in your classrooms, in your parent-teachers association meetings, in your housing society welfare group discussions about what role you can play in mitigating the pain of the widows whose husbands were burnt alive in 1984. Talk to anyone and everyone about what can you do about the liquor vend-around-every-corner policy of the Punjab Government. Ask the media why press clubs have to have a liquor bar as their main reason for existence. Question the culture of the rise of the raunchy in our cinema. Ask the editors why after all the hyped up coverage of the Ruchika case, the space devoted to it was still far short of what is claimed by Bollywood starlets.

And please do ask yourself, as we ask ourselves: Who had asked us to remain silent for nineteen years?

Our silence and inaction against the paedophiles in our society, schools, neighbourhoods make us complicit in the horrific crimes being perpetrated against our children. Please refuse to be a complicit. None of us is going to look very smart standing next to Rathore in any photograph. Even if he does not smirk.

27January 2010
 

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